Families Belong Together: Elí's 4th Elephant and Piggie Bday Celebration

Last weekend we celebrated my wonderful little man's 4th Bday, Elephant and Piggie style! The birthday boy requested that we use his party to promote families belonging together. So we used Gerald, Piggie, Duckling, and Pigeon to tell the story of family togetherness. The beautiful photos were taken by Tequila Graphics.

Elephant and Piggie Cookies
The royal icing cookies always take the longest, so I made these 2 weeks in advance. This was my first time making the cookie cutters myself. I really like how they turned out. Will definitely continue to make my own cutters in the future.

Pigeon Cookies
I made these cookies the night before the party as a last-minute edition. They are chocolate-covered double stuffed Oreos. You can't get nearly the same detail as you can with the royal icing with melted chocolate, but they are still super cute and literally take 10% of the time it takes to make the royal icing ones.

Elephant and Piggie, Families Belong Together Painting
This painting was inspired by The Thank You Book by Mo Willems. I painted this in the days leading up to the party as my gift to Elí. I also made a slightly modified version of this, with less prominence to "Elías's bday" and added the big heading EVERYONE IS WELCOME HERE, which I turned into 11x17 printed posters for the kids to decorate at the party and hang up at their own homes.

The Gerald and Piggie Band
This painting featuring Elephant, Piggie, Duckling, and Pigeon, was Adán, my wonderfully creative 6 yr old son's gift to his brother.

The Gerald and Piggie Band, Friends Belong Together Cake
At the request of Elías, I started by making his vanilla buttercream cake blue and then realized that it looked very similar to Adán's painting. So I decided to add grass, and then made cut-outs of his characters from his painting on my diecutter, and added them as toppers to the cake. Adán was so proud :).

Duckling Cookies

We hung up my children's posters from the last immigration marches by the art table where the kids made posters and puppets.

I made little Elephant, Pigge, and Pigeon cut-outs with little talk bubbles for the kids to color and turn into puppets. In some of them, the characters were happy and in some they were sad. Some of the talk bubbles were blank and some had pre-written statements matching the party's theme like Families belong together!, EVERYONE is welcome here! End family separation, and Close the camps!

The bday boy with his Abuelito

Elephant and Piggie Cake
A few days before the party, our ped put my son on a lactose-free diet (due to tummy aches) which meant he couldn't enjoy any of the royal icing sugar cookies, chocolate covered pretzels, chocolate covered Oreos, or the main cake, so I made him this extra special decadent lactose-free, gluten-free chocolate cake, with delicious vegan buttercream icing with Gerald and Piggie fondant cake toppers to match his painting. He LOVED it :).

ALL kids are welcome here!
I actually never finished this painting. I started it with the intention that it would be a photo backdrop for the kids. But I had open wall space and this fit perfect, so we went with it.

The party was a huge success! The birthday boy was delighted and many many critical conversations were had around our current immigration policies and ways that we as a community can and should be responding.

Chuga chuga choo choo 2!

Two years ago, I threw my son Elías a Thomas the Train themed birthday party.

I've shared images from some of my kid's birthday parties in the past, but I've never done a full breakdown of all of the pieces involved in making the event happen. So for the first time, I'm giving this a try. 

Let me know what you think and if there are other areas you'd like me to cover in future posts.

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Pick a theme that matters.

For me, the party theme is key, as it is an indicator of the overall event experience. So, I never want to get stuck with a theme that I can't stand behind (like a kid's theme with characters that involve guns or swords). Additionally, I always try to choose themes that are more timeless. That way, components can be reused again,

Luckily, Thomas the Train was an easy theme to get behind.  Thomas is definitely a classic. I have very fond memories of growing up watching Ringo Star on Shining Time Station and both of my kids and their friends are huge Thomas fans.

Take some me time. 

Like most working moms, my time is very limited, and every moment is precious. Whenever I'm going to put all of this effort into one of these parties, not only do I need it to be a theme that I can stand behind, but I always use it as an opportunity to learn a new skill or a new set of skills. Really party planning is my secret me-time.

Learn a new skill that you can replicate in the future.

In my case, I wanted to learn how to make professional looking cakes for kid's parties. I used fondant for the first time to make a soccer ball shaped cake for Adán's 3rd Messi birthday. And this time around I wanted to learn how to make fondant cake toppers.

Tips, and tricks for making your own Thomas the Train party. 

I make the majority of items (decorations and baked goods), order a few things (that usually can be repurposed either for future parties or as toys for the kids), and reuse things from past parties.

Here are the items I made:

Thomas the Train birthday banner, Thomas the Train and friends cut outs, and rail signs - I made these out of cardstock on my Cricut Explore die cutter. (I have since upgraded to the Cricut Maker, but still recommend the Explore, as it is has a lot of capabilities and is about $100 cheaper.)

Paper fans and clouds - hand cut these out of cardstock as a last min addition. (Bottom left image in the gridded image)

Thomas the Train photo backdrop - made this out of cardboard and painted it with acrylic paints.

Railroad cake and train tunnel cakes - chocolate and vanilla cakes with buttercream icing, topped in Satin Ice fondant.

Chocolate covered pretzels - These pretzels are 100% my go-to for all parties. Super easy to make, people love them, and they are a great addition to any tablescape.

Thomas the Train royal icing cookies - I bought a cookie cutter on Etsy and frosted the cookies with royal icing, which I make with meringue powder. (Learned a MAJOR lesson with this batch of royal icing, I usually use Americolor food gels to die my icing, and this time I mixed it with a Chefmates food gel, and boy was that a mistake. I had to throw out the majority of the cookies... I'll write about that in a future post.)

Thomas the Train chocolate covered double stuffed Oreos - dipped Oreos in melting chocolate then while still wet added Thomas the Train candy toppers that I picked up at Party City.

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Here are the items I bought:

3 Thomas the Train felt masks - bought these super cute masks on Etsy.  We still use these as dress-up items.

Thomas the Train chocolate lollipops - I was planning on making these, as I've made Elmo and soccer ball lollipops for past bday parties, but I was getting down to the last minute and I ended up finding these on Etsy while looking for the felt masks (listing is no longer live).

Conductor outfit for the birthday boy - bought this on Amazon. We also still use this today as a dress-up item.

Sunflowers - picked these up at the Farmer's Market right before the party. Whenever possible, I love having living plants as part of the tablescape.

Thomas the Train plastic toys- got these used on the local parent swap resale FB page.

Vintage Thomas the Trains- bought a lot of trains on eBay (listing no longer active) and this was essentially Elías's bday gift, but also served as the activity for the kids to play with during the party on top of our train table. I actually ended up selling the train table on that same FB group after the party.

Thomas the train popup tent- we have really long Chicago hallways, so I put this train in the hallway during the party and the kids took turns being the train. Note that when I purchased this on Amazon it was $21 but the price at that same listing went up like crazy, so I linked to another one I found for $30.

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Here are the things I reused from other parties:

Astroturf table covering & fake plants from Adán's Messi birthday.

The blue, red, and yellow cake stands and wooden letters that I made for Elías's Elmo birthday. 

Red Converse Allstars from Adan's Daniel Tiger party bday.

Final pieces of advice.

If you have a good friend that is a photographer, or can afford to pay a photographer, it's worth the investment.  If you are anything like me, you're running around the whole time, making sure everything is in place, everyone is happy, safe and has been fed, which leaves you with zero time to take a single photo.  That was the case with this party, I didn't stop for a moment or get any single photo.

Don't beat yourself up. Being the perfectionist that I am, I was hesitant to share this party because I didn't have good enough photos. But I finally decided I that needed to get over myself and share. Not everything needs to be perfect (this is something I need to remind myself of every day.)

So while the documentation isn't perfect, you see enough to get a sense of the experience, and how happy the birthday boy was, which is ultimately the most important part.  

If any of you go on to make a similar party, I'd love to hear how it turns out. And if you can't get a photographer DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT, enjoy the moment and the memories.

I'll be back soon with documentation of:
Adán's 4th Paw Patrol birthday, Elías's 3rd Babar birthday, Adán's 5th Lego birthday, Adán's 6th Keith Haring birthday, and Elías's upcoming 4th Lion King birthday.

FC Barcelona Bday!

Welcome to Messi Madness aka my son's third birthday.  I was a year behind in posting last year's pictures, so this year I am getting on it right away.My little man is absolutely crazy about soccer and of course Lionel Messi. He runs through our home yelling "Mama soy Messi y mi hermano es Neymar Jr."  When we asked him what theme he wanted for his birthday he had many ideas. But in the end he narrowed it down to FC Barcelona and Frida Kahlo.  While we didn't end up with the Frida theme this year, he did insist on leaving the Frida Kahlo painting up in the kitchen so that everyone the party would see it.Some of the highlights of the party included: a chocolate fondant soccer ball cake, royal icing soccer jersey and soccer ball cookies, chocolate soccer ball lollipops, lots of FCB diecuts (made on the Cricut Explore), chocolate covered Oreos with soccer toppers, a FCB fruit platter, and of course FCB gear for the whole family.My little boy delighted that we FINALLY allowed him to eat a royal icing cookie.The desert table.The chocolate fondant soccer ball cake.Chocolate soccer ball lollipops.Royal icing cookies.Our family in full FC Barcelona gear.The epic FCB fruit platter made by my dear friend Lamia.Custom plates for the birthday boy.Our awesome photographer also wore FCB gear.Chocolate soccer balls.I wish I had more time to decorate the porch, but with two small children I had to pick my "battles" and decided to focus my energy on the inside. However my wonderful papi made the impossible happen and somehow magically jerry rigged this flag into place. And I would be remiss if I didn't mention the DELICIOUS tacos from Cafe Catedral- hands down the best party food ever.And of course my little Messi periodically stopped partying and got in some serious kicks.Stay tuned for photos of my second son's first birthday coming in August. This will be our second Elmo themed birthday, as my first son also celebrated his first birthday in Elmo style.Photos by Nick Cartwright